Muscled guy divorced looking for some fun and spending time with intelligence guys; Have not been on this site much but can see that some of the folks are real idiots and phonies. I would almost like to mention them. Separated from wife realizing that I prefer men. But real men not people who pretend to be men or want to play fantasy world. I work, investment banker, do very well and have traveled extensively. If you are a phony, don't waste my time. Eventually I would like a stable relationship with a real man who is not insecure and especially is honest, if not in the past, honest now.