paladinik
akaukhorti
3729 mi
3729 mi
Read this before mailing me! I am a quiet, reserved sometimes shy man. been there done most things I wanted to. I am Bi, have a partner and on here to chat with sincere people, if you dont like my situation just make sure you are squeaky clean before opening your mouths, made my own mistakes through life , but hey it makes life Richer'. Please note I do not do cam sex as the norm nor do I give phone numbers out nor emails except to special people, neither do I open my wallet so dont try..Anything else please ask. -Been on here for sometime,( however this site and my computer do not seem to like each other hence new profiles) and really I dont bite unless you want me to (many strings to my Bow!)
AS the name implies big into plants , natural history anything countryside orientateted, arts etc etc. Originally from a farming comunity and definately not vegan thogh happy with vegetarian at times but not for ethical reasons
BDGF
5670 mi
5670 mi
Hello. Not single, Just here for chat
The Monthly photo that I put on my home page is from a calendar that supports research for testicular cancer.
"Reputation is what others think about you. What’s far more important is character,
because that is what you think about yourself." - Billie Jean King
infatuation makes your heart race, love is quiet. love sets you at ease.
"There is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.", - Vincent van Gogh
Love is love
Love has no gender
Love has no sexual orientation
Love has no age and ability
Love has no boundaries
Love has no limit
Love has no race or religion
Love knows no flaws
Love has no labels
We fall in love by chance. We stay in love by choice.
"Love is anterior to life, posterior to death, initial of creation, and the exponent of breath.” Emily Dickinson
By now even the deep in the cult folks know that 45's superpower is turning lawyers, donors and followers into criminals.
The blinding obvious is never immediate apparent
Trump is one - use six tactics to gain and maintain power. They are Big Ideas/Big Lies, Misinformation/Disinformation, Marginalization of Opponents, Dependency of Allies, Divide and Conquer, Threats, Repression and Violence.
When the white eagle of the North is flying overhead
And the browns, reds and golds of autumn lye in the gutter dead
Remember then the summer birds with wings of fire flame
Come to witness springs new hope, born of leaves decaying
And as new life will come from death
Love will come at leisure
Love of love, love of life and giving without measure
Gives in return a wondrous yearn for promise almost seen
Live hand in hand and together we'll stand
On the threshold of a dream
Getting the COVID-19 vaccine is part of everyone's responsibility to protect the health of others.
A Russian report, reportedly describes the future president as an “impulsive, mentally unstable and unbalanced individual who suffers from an inferiority complex,” and, therefore, the “most promising candidate.”
Folks get indignant about their rights to own guns and to not wear masks — though those “personal choices” impact others. But a woman choosing what’s right for HER is somehow everyone else’s business.
If you are unvaccinated, there is a very high risk of you contracting COVID-19 if you come into contact,' with it it.
A person's friendships are one of the best measures of their worth." - Charles Darwin (paraphrased)
“A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.” L. Frank Baum
"The application for injunctive relief presented to Justice [Samuel] Alito and by him referred to the Court is denied"
“The one thing that should be clear to most Americans is that China isn’t paying these tariffs,” “It’s the U.S. importers that are paying them and the U.S. consumers that are paying it.”
"Real change, enduring change, happens one step at a time." Ruth Bader Ginsberg
If you can’t agree that your most diametrically opposed enemy has the same basic rights as you, you’re not being an American anymore.
In Trumpworld, the Grown-Ups in the Room All Left, and Got Book Deals
Something as simple as a mask can save someone’s life
A Sagittarius' optimism and fearlessness mixes well with a Capricorn's hardworking and practical nature, ... “Those born on the Sagittarius-Capricorn Cusp begin preparing themselves early for what life may bring. Their motto is 'Always be prepared"
Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. A. Lincoln
Sagittarius: independent, positive, cautious, friendly and sincere.
You cannot, in all good conscience, put the words, "trump" and "sense" in the same sentence
gay male, married my husband.. I stop in to chat. Cheers...
Have a Pic Please if you want to see mine. I have a face photo in my private page....
If you want to be friends come say hello in chat first.
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Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. MLK
Peace comes from within, seek it from yourself!.
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You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, l will rise.
BobCdnDom
6842 mi
6842 mi
Always a top, a Dom when I find a good sub. (I end up topping a lot more than Domming, and both are good, sometimes even great! :) )
Happy to chat and get into cyber roleplay. But don't bother if you want to talk about rape, incest (not interested in being your "daddy"), or age-play. Rarely do phone, so don't ask. If it's a possibility, I'll let you know. If you're a teen, thanks for the interest, but I'll pass.
I don't post or share pictures. If that's a problem for you, I'm sorry, but it's the way it is.
Be real. I am.
And BTW, the "Cdn" in my screen name stands for "Canadian".
== Results from bdsmtest.org (obviously for when I Dom; topping can be anything from mild to wild) ==
100% Dominant
97% Degrader
92% Voyeur
88% Master/Mistress
87% Rigger
67% Primal (Hunter)
64% Brat tamer
59% Experimentalist
58% Exhibitionist
50% Owner
43% Sadist
34% Vanilla
11% Daddy/Mommy
10% Non-monogamist
0% Masochist
0% Switch
0% Submissive
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Pet
0% Brat
0% Ageplayer
bodybysergei
7824 mi
7824 mi
If you actually read this I'll be impressed.
Used to frequent the muscle room on gay.com; unfortunately I've lost contact with the guys I chatted with there. This is the only site I chat on now. If I'm logged on here I'm usually willing to chat, but please have something to say. Not into sexual chat, cyber, or phone, and i"m not looking for a bf/partner or to hook up. I used to frequent the Intellectuals Room on this site, but unfortunately that room is pretty much dead now. If you pvt me and I don't respond it probably means I am away from the site (or from the computer). Please don't send a friend request if we have not chatted - it will be declined. My pic is really old; I should upload a more recent one and will get around to that eventually.
Would definitely like to have more friends, particularly local ones (I'm in Los Angeles).
Subjects I enjoy chatting about: politics (progressive democrat), history, travel, languages, books, ideas, current events/international relations. Things I don't enjoy chatting about: tv shows (don't watch except for occasional pbs show, and i don't have cable or satellite); movies (never go), popular music (only listen to radio in car, and have no idea who the popular singers/musicians are these days); sports (absolutely no interest); pets (don't have and don't particularly like).
Will occasionally send a compliment to someone who has a nice picture and/or profile; no response expected except maybe a thank you.
(Updated January 1 2026.)
cjinlakeview
6098 mi
6098 mi
In Chicago (boystown)... Dominant / aggressive TOP - (Yes I will go from mild to kinky with no notice) -- CJ likes to have fun, watch movies old and new, read, do daily workouts and travel in and out of the country. CJ has been to over 20 countries and 45 states.
If you were to describe CJ... He's an honest and trustworthy man who is full of vigor but can act like an adolescent at times. He is very blunt and has this "in your face" honesty. That is the New Yorker in him (he grew up in New York - Long Island). If he doesn't like something he will tell you but also be prepared to take criticism but he also takes criticism well. CJ also loves humor... dirty, intelligent, fun, nasty humor (long time listener of Howard Stern). A good vomit or shit joke will always make him laugh. CJ will be sarcastic and can be down right mean with his humor and conversations but it is always in jest. If you are offended well he just doesn't give a shit, UNLESS... he knows he's wrong. He will ALWAYS apologize if he knows he is wrong. CJ has that maturity to him. CJ is very well educated and has a Masters degree, he tries to learn languages, and likes to be relevant with social cultures, politics, and other interests.
guitarplayer08
7751 mi
7751 mi
pretty easy going here, like to play guitar for fun, overall good guy, just get to know me :) no drama, just plain conversation
jakethesnake39
6493 mi
6493 mi
42 year old gay male from Texas looking to make friends to chat with.
If you don't want to chat with me thats fine just say hey not interested don't be rude to me and just ignore me and if you start a conversation with me and just leave in the middle of the chat I will only give a second chance it happens again I will block you.
Don't ask me for money especially if your in a different country or claim to be in the army,navy,air force etc because I will block you.
Don't ask to Skype I don't have Skype anymore I have whatsapp but only talk to my real friends so within time I will make close friends on here to give out my whatsapp.
Don't ask me what I do for a living because that will get you no where but blocked.
If you don't have at least one face picture on your profile don't bother private messaging me not being rude but I want to see who I'm talking to simple as that.
And one other thing I don't go to the gym or workout I'm not interested in being buff or muscled up I'm average and that is fine with me don't expect me to be an Adonis or anything like that take me as I am or leave me alone.
JamieM
9829 mi
9829 mi
Hi, I'm Jamie (real name btw), I've made real good friends on here who I really respect.
And I'm back after........... not sure, a year?......I've missed people but this is the present which brings the new light of day to the future.
I hope to continue meeting people, chatting and whatever develops positively.
McTommy
3609 mi
3609 mi
Think I might just update this after many years.
City boy living in the country. Scottish born now in rural Wales. Interested in politics, the arts, film, people. Read and watch TV. A believer in equality for all. I don't discriminate. I am a man of faith. No affiliations to churches.
I am a partner in pubs and b and b's. But don't do much due to disability. I cope well with that. Always positive of mind.
I'm looking to meet online friends. Different and similar to me. Hit me up to know more. Tom
Mildred
5609 mi
5609 mi
X SIREN OF THE SILVER SCREEN
Here for a few laughs.
Wouldn't mind meeting a nice man for friendship or dating.
roync
5594 mi
5594 mi
i keep 1 parrot, nancy the blue front amazon, .i love to read and learn about parrot behavior, and nutritional needs, i love preparing their diet they get sprouted seed, chopped and shredded veggies, cooked pasta, tree nuts and fruits, and some grains, i set a day a side every 2 weeks two make up their food for 2 weeks.
i have 2 dogs patty and beauregard patty is a chow chow akita mix very protective of me she has cancer. patty and beauregard are my babie i have 1 cat oliver he is 11 years old he is maincoon and siamese mix he is a very finicky kitty will only eat one kind of cat food and eats it 4 to 5 times a day....he is my boy
then we have the posse of my menagerie my 2 sugar gliders they are molly, i also love to read about their nutritional requirements and husbandry, i feed fresh veggies and fruit and a protein source and supplement with vitamins and calcium i feed the diet in the form of a nectar, they also get insects, and eucalyptus for enrichment, i like to sew thempouches and other items for their cages, and i make them toys.
I also have 3 aquariums and 2 turtles.
i do enjoy sewing and other crafts, building things and such, as a past time i like to read and learn about aquariums and their Maintenace. i like to do things on the computer like chatting and researching about different pets, also like to read and learn about wicca, i like to learn about plants and their properties, healing stones, and some novels.
i also enjoy plants and gardening.
im am a down to earth shy reserved guy very quiet, if im uncomfortable i pretty much shut down, im and drug free, been that way for 34 years back in the 80s i spent some of my late teens smoking crack, lost every thing, place to live, car job every thing.....i realized thats not the road i wanted to take in life and have strived to be better, make everyday count, once i cleaned myself up i got a job, an apartment, dog that was what i was working for, then a few months later i mat a guy who i would spend 24 years of my life with, we had a happy life together we had our ups and downs, but most importnatly we had each other he passed on in 2014 at the age of 43, inn 2007 my partner decided we wanted different things in life so we took a break i met a man john i spent 3 years with him he died in 2010 of colon cancer at the age of 43 me and richard both took care of him in his final days.
i have received alot of love in my lifetime and a lot of meanness and unkind treatment what did i do with it ? well the love and kindness i let grow within me, i try to treat everyone i meet with kindness and respect.........the meanness hatefulness and unkindness i buried. i never in my lifetime want to make anyone feel the way i have been treated at times
i do want to put in my profile i am mentally il, i suffer from depression and schizophrenia, it is managed with medications, i still have my bad days but not as often, people who know me will tell you im one of the kindest people i will help anyone, there is alot of stigmas with schizophrenia, its very rare for a person to become violent, off my meds yes im different but not violent im more scared, and i have like one person who is like my security blanket, richard was that person for me for 24 years, now i have no one.
my work was i was a nurses assistant i took care of alzheimers patients for several years, cancer patients for a few years, and then the other part was i took care of mentally ill people, i was good at what i did and loved it.
today? im practically scared to leave my house, i very seldom leave my home, this is where my animals are and i dont want the to feel alone so i choose not to leave, i socialize in chat rooms and social media the only time i leave it maybe a quick run to the store or doctor appointments.
i like helping people, i was once told i was to kind for a world that wasnt kind to me and let me down, but i keep smiling i know theres something better, i no longer talk about my life or pets in the chat room due to complaints, i no longer talk about sex or even how big your dick is thats no longer an interest of mine i havent had sex in12 years and have been fine
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